Frequently Asked Questions & Helpful Notes

Frequently Asked Questions & Helpful Notes

Over the past weeks, we have received quite a few questions about our wedding — which we really appreciate. Since many different cultures, habits, and expectations will come together on this evening, we completely understand that some things may raise questions in advance. That is exactly why we decided to collect the most common questions and helpful notes here. This way, everyone knows what to expect and we can all enjoy the celebration together in a relaxed way.

Dress Code

You are warmly invited to dress formal and elegant — for example in a suit or an evening dress. At the same time, we would also love to see colorful, classic, or traditional clothing from all cultural backgrounds.

For women, examples include Shalwar Kameez, Lehenga, or festive outfits with a Dupatta.
For men, examples include Kurta Shalwar, Shalwar Kameez, Sherwani, or a festive Kurta with a Waistcoat.

As this is an Islamic wedding, we kindly ask you to avoid outfits with extensive chest or back cut-outs, midriff-baring clothing, and clothing that ends above the knees.

Traditional Pakistani or Indian outfits can also be ordered online. One shop we know is https://zaikstore.com/, which also has a base in Germany. There are certainly other shops as well, but we especially recommend this one because it is based in Germany.

Another option is simply to let Aqib know. As already mentioned below, he may often be able to bring something from Pakistan for less money, with better quality, and in the exact colors you want. Of course, it is also possible to spend several hundred euros on clothing in Pakistan; there is no real upper limit. But a normal Shalwar Kameez or a Kurta set for men often starts at around 20 to 30 euros, and similarly for women as well — depending on fabric, workmanship, and style.

Small note: Aqib will be in Pakistan from April 4, 2026 to April 15, 2026. Anyone who would like him to bring something suitable may simply message him on WhatsApp at +49 176 723 81614 during that time.

Punctuality

We know that in some cultures people can be a little more relaxed about timing — we totally get that. But for this evening, we really depend on everyone being on time. The schedule is binding and important for everything to run smoothly.

Registered Guests Only

Please note that only registered guests can attend. Seating, space, and planning are all arranged in advance, so unfortunately we will not be able to add extra seats or accommodate additional guests on the evening itself.

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Conduct & Interaction

We would love the atmosphere to be open, relaxed, and respectful. No one needs to feel nervous or awkward.

In some dances, it is completely normal to hold hands — for example in Halay. We simply ask that men hold hands with men or with women they are familiar with, and women likewise with women or with men they are familiar with. That way everything stays easygoing, cheerful, and comfortable for everyone.

Alcohol

As this is an Islamic event, there will be no alcohol. Bringing alcohol or arriving under the influence of alcohol is not appropriate for the evening.

Smoking

If you would like to smoke, please do so outside only. Please also try not to smoke directly around children.

Families & Children

There will be nursing and quiet rooms for infants and toddlers aged 0–2, as well as a separate children’s play area.

We kindly ask parents to make sure children do not run across the dance floor or through program areas during performances, dances, or choreographies. Once general dancing starts, children are of course very welcome to join in.

Prayer Room

A prayer room will be available. For anyone unfamiliar with this, we simply ask you to keep the space quiet and not walk directly in front of someone who is praying.

Usually, the person will be praying facing a wall or with a sutrah in front of them. Passing outside that boundary is absolutely fine.

Participation & Memories

There will be a few program moments during the evening, and we would really love for you to join in.

It also means a lot to us that beautiful moments are captured in photos and videos. So please feel free to start taking photos and short videos right from the moment you arrive — for example at our photo wall or during small surprises throughout the evening.

Of course, guests will also be taking photos and videos. These recordings will be used only for our personal wedding video and wedding album.

There will also be short group interviews with guests throughout the evening. Time slots will be assigned, and the recordings are meant as loving messages and keepsakes for the bride and groom.

How do song requests work?

We have our own song-request feature, directly linked to Spotify. Registered guests can suggest songs — just type the title in the search box and pick one. All guests (also without login) can then vote 👍 for their favourites. The songs with the most votes climb to the top of the DJ playlist on the wedding day. You'll find song requests in the "Get Involved" hub or directly in the menu.

Congratulations, Photos & Gifts

At certain moments, the bride and groom will be seated on the bridal chairs, so guests can come by one after another to offer congratulations.

At that time, gifts or envelopes can also be handed over in a relaxed way. And of course, taking one or more photos with the bride and groom is part of the tradition too.